Xxxchatrooms - 18 months of dating going nowhere
By the same token, I feel that it is appropriate to KNOW by 6 months if this person is the one or not. Let me remind you that I’m not talking about people in their 20’s who enter into 5-year relationships. I just ended a relationship with a guy after 6 months who told me he had serious doubts that I was the one.
I know people that get engaged after 6-8 months because they just know. I am still considered young, but one long-term relationship that goes nowhere and I am 1-2 years older!
If a guy tells me he wants to date for 2 years, then if we are right, he wants to get married, but then travel for a year before thinking about having kids, shouldn’t I run? All of my close single girlfriends are in the same boat.
They have seemingly great mates who have jobs and call their moms and open doors to restaurants- but haven’t yet popped the question.
The relationship is traveling into their third (or sixth) year and nothing is wrong except these girls would like to take the relationship to the next level and their men have yet to agree.
I get asked a lot of relationship-themed questions given where I work, and one of them is from women with boyfriends who want to know how long to wait for the ring.
These aren’t women who have been dating for two months, but rather women who are in long-term relationships.
My friends and I are all in the range of early to mid- to somewhat late 30’s and this is a very difficult time to find “the one”.
When I was in my 20’s, I never worried about having to find out if my date/bf wanted kids or where he wanted to live or if we have the same ideas about money and spending.
However, what is your fault is when you do know and do nothing about it. So for all you women out there who have a feeling it's going nowhere and need some proof to hit it home, take a look at these 25 signs your relationship is on a one way street to nowhere.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating